A Message from a Friend

As I switched on my phone this morning, I saw 2 (Two) messages on my Whatsapp and one of it was a Message from a very good friend that has become a sister and  I love to share because I know it is not just for me. Read below…

7 Ways to Identify a Wrong Relationship before It Start

We spend just about 20% of our life living single, the remaining 80% of it will be committed to someone we swore to spend the rest of our life with in the presence of many witnesses. Our relationship can either lead us to heaven or be the reason for us ending in hell. Many of us do not seek ‘God’s Will’ for a lot of issues in life except in choosing a life partner. We tend to handle it spiritually most of the time. However there are also some things that we can see physically before we go spiritual. These 7 ways will not only save you from starting a relationship that will eventually upset you but it will also help you to guide against ‘wasted time’.

2 WAYS TO USE WHAT YOU HAVE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT

It is easier to see what we do not have than to see what we have. Often time it is because we believe that what we do not have is what we need to have to see the results we desire. However this is not true.

 

God is not interested in what you do not have; He is interested in what you have. With what you have you can achieve anything even more than as much as you think you would achieve with what you do not have.

Let me make it simpler with biblical examples of how God used what people have to achieve what they believe they can only achieve if they have what they do not have at the moment.

Emotional Unavailability by Busola Adedire

I saw this article so I decided to share it with you. Enjoy!!!

The term ‘emotional unavailability’ is one that had been hovering over my subconscious for the past few months or so. After a series of personal struggles, I decided to sit and own up to the truth, and it was not a surprising one either. It turned out that all this while I have also been executing the signs and symptoms of an emotionally unavailable individual.

You see, confronting this truth was not easy but I believe one of the fastest ways to grow is learning to take responsibility for one’s mistakes. At the times when I thought about this term, I was quite oblivious of its depth; all I could identify with was its meaning at a surface level. So, off I ran to Google to check what this was all about.

Hilarious!!!

One of the things I love about my family is that we laugh about virtually everything. When the times are good and when the times are bad (Thanks to my mum). We find it so difficult to believe when we come across other families that do not laugh...even when things are going well with them.

Why am I talking about laughter today? ok...during the evening service in church yesterday, there were prophesies and one of the things we were told to do was to laugh like we have received the promises of God for our lives. At first, the laughter was not real. So many people were putting up fake laughter and then gradually it became really interesting as people started laughing like Nitrous Oxide (Laughing gas) was released to the atmosphere.

Suddenly it occurred to me that this is how witches laugh when they gather (according to Nollywood). So I decided to throw the question out to people, why do witches laugh and Christians don't?

Be Strong

We all have something we are afraid of at one point or the other of our lives. Some of us have fear of the future, our health, our finance, our safety, our career, our academics and even viruses like Ebola. At the same time some of us are afraid of men; our boss, our friends, our siblings, our parents, our lecturers etc. Also, some are afraid to fail, to make mistakes, to step out, to voice opinions, to face the crowd etc. What is your FEAR?

The Gentle Whisper

Imagine everyone speaking at the same time

Imagine everyone wants an immediate response

Imagine everyone looking up to Just One person to answer

Imagine no one paying attention to the One with the answer

Imagine the anguish of those who desperately wants to be heard;

The louder they speak, the lesser they can hear themselves

Imagine no one ready to wait quietly to hear the voice of the One they all earnestly sought

And suddenly something strange happened