Friday, 31 October 2014

BookClub- The Love Dare by Alex and Stephen Kendrick Day 9

Dear BookClub reader, welcome to day 9 of this book 'THE LOVE DARE'. The Love Dare is a non-fiction marriage-related book written by Alex and Stephen Kendrick. It is a 40-day Christian devotional designed to strengthen marriages. Click to view day 1, 2, 3 ,4 , 5 , 6, 7 , 
For this book reading, each day will contain three very important element;

First, a unique aspect of love will be discussed.
Second, you will be given a specific dare to do for your spouse.
Last, you will need a journal to log what you are learning and doing and how your spouse is responding by answering the 'question of the day'. These note will record your progress and should become priceless to you in the future.

The entire book will not be published but every chapter will be previewed and I strongly recommend that you get a hard copy for future references.

Ensure that you do not miss any part of this book reading. Enjoy!


DAY 9: Love is makes good impression

Greet one another with a kiss of love. —1 Peter 5:14
You've covered some serious ground so far in this journey. Learning to demonstrate aspects of love like patience, kindness, and encouragement are not always easy but are certainly crucial to a healthy relationship. You can tell a lot about the state of a couple's relationship  from the way they greet one another. It is even more obvious by their physical contact. But how much importance should you give greeting?

The Bible has more to say about greetings than you might expect. The apostle Paul took time to encourage his readers to greet one another warmly when they met. Jesus noted in his sermon on the Mount that even pagans speak kindly to people they like and their enemies.

Think back to the story Jesus told of the prodigal son (Luke 15:20). Of all the scenerios this young man had played out his mind, this was likely the last one he expected. But how do you think it made him feel to recieve his father's embrace and heart his thankful tone? What do you think it did in their relationship?

Think about your greeting. Do you use it well? Does your spouse spouse feel valued and appreciated? Do you feel loved? Even when you are not getting along well, you can lessen the tension and give them value by the way you greet them.

Remember, love is a choice. So choose to change your greeting. Choose to Love.

TODAY’S DARE
Think of a specific way you’d like to greet your spouse today. Do it with a smile and with enthusiasm. Then determine to change your greeting to reflect your love for them.

QUESTION OF THE DAY
When and where did you choose to do your special greeting? How will you change your greeting from this point on?

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