Tuesday, 11 November 2014

BookClub- The Love Dare by Alex and Stephen Kendrick Day 16

Dear BookClub reader, welcome to day 16 of this book 'THE LOVE DARE'. The Love Dare is a non-fiction marriage-related book written by Alex and Stephen Kendrick. It is a 40-day Christian devotional designed to strengthen marriages. Click to view day 1, 2, 3 ,4 , 5 , 6, 7 ,  8 , 9 , 10 , 11 ,12 , 13,14,  15
For this book reading, each day will contain three very important element;
First, a unique aspect of love will be discussed.
Second, you will be given a specific dare to do for your spouse.
Last, you will need a journal to log what you are learning and doing and how your spouse is responding by answering the 'question of the day'. These note will record your progress and should become priceless to you in the future.
The entire book will not be published but every chapter will be previewed and I strongly recommend that you get a hard copy for future references.

Ensure that you do not miss any part of this book reading. Enjoy!


DAY 16: Love Intercedes

Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers.
—3 John 2
You cannot change your spouse. As much as you may want to, you cannot play God and reach into their heart and mold them into what you want them to be. But that's what most couples spend a large part of their time to do- change their spouse.
A farmer cannot make a seed grow into a fruitful crop. He cannot argue, manipulate, or demand it to bear fruit. But he can plant the seed into fertile soil, give it water and nutrients, protect it from weeds, and then turn it over to God. 

There is no guarantee that anything in this book will change your spouse. But that's not what this book is about. It is about daring you to love. But regardless of the soil you're working with, you are to get the weeds out of your marriage. You are to nurture the soil of your mate's heart and depend on God for the results.

But you won't be able to do this alone. You will need something more powerful than anything else you have.  And that is effective prayer. Prayer works best when coming from a humble heart that is in a right relationship with God and others. No one knows better how to pray for your mate than you.

If your spouse doesn't have any type of relationship with God, then it's clear what you need to start praying for. One of the most loving things you can do for your spouse is to pray for them.

TODAY’S DARE
Begin praying today for your spouse’s heart. Pray for three specific areas where you desire for God to work in your spouse’s life and in your marriage.

QUESTION OF THE DAY
Have you experienced the power of prayer in the past? What did you choose to pray about? Was it easy for you, or did it feel foreign to you?


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